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Accomplish a Goal

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2014-06-19 8:37 GMT+07:00 Dwika Sudrajat <dwikasudrajat@yahoo.com>:
SMART stands for:

S – Specific (or Significant).
M – Measurable (or Meaningful).
A – Attainable (or Action-Oriented).
R – Relevant (or Rewarding).
T – Time-bound (or Trackable).
I deliver happiness,
Dwika

How to Accomplish a Goal

Edited by James Quirk, Krystle, Travis Derouin, Krystle C. and 93 others

Three Parts:Setting Goals Getting Started Accomplishing Your Goal

Everyone has dreams. Whether they are big or small, they have vast importance in our lives. The procrastinator in all of us doesn't have to win. The Little Engine That Could was on to something with the whole "I think I can" mentality. With just a little bit of planning, accomplishing a goal is a simple task.

Part 1 of 3: Setting Goals

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Start working toward your goals today. Ask yourself, "What can I do today to get one step ahead, however small, closer to achieving my goals?" Write it down and start now. Taking the first step is arguably the most important step. You'll establish some much-needed momentum. This will make quitting both personally disappointing and strategically harder. In the words of Eleanor Roosevelt, "Do one thing every day that scares you."

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When you set goals, think about setting SMART goals. SMART is an acronym and mnemonic that provides a framework for thinking about goals.^[1] Educators and coaches like to use this framework because it forces us to sit down and really design our goals intelligently so that they're ultimately easier to accomplish. SMART stands for:
- S – Specific (or Significant).
- M – Measurable (or Meaningful).
- A – Attainable (or Action-Oriented).
- R – Relevant (or Rewarding).
- T – Time-bound (or Trackable).
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In keeping with SMART, make sure your goal is specific and definable. A definable goal might be something like "I'd like to lose 20 pounds in three months" or "I'd like to win a Scrabble tournament." Specific, definable goals help you stay on track and let you know they're feasible.
- An unspecific goal, like "I'd like to become a better human being" is so vague as to be practically useless. You could become a "better human being" by cleaning up the dishes or by solving world peace. See what we mean? Instead of thinking about really general goals, stay specific. After all, if you set yourself a goal of volunteering for Thanksgiving, there's a good chance you've become a better human being.
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Make sure your goal is measurable. How will you know if your goal is accomplished? Will it be accomplished when you have a feeling, which can be unreliable, or will it be accomplished when a threshold is surpassed or a day takes place?
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Ask yourself, "Is my goal attainable?" Is there an action involved in the goal? This step is less about making sure the goal is theoretically possible and more about making sure the goal is personally practical. Here's the difference between the two:
- A theoretically possible goal could be getting to the moon. Yes, it's been done by a handful of humans, so it is technically possible. But how big are your chances of getting there? If it's your ultimate dream and you're an astronaut, maybe it's more in the realm of possibility. But for most of us, it's just not a practical goal.
- A personally practical goal, instead of getting to the moon, would be to earn a paying job as an astronaut. Yes, it's very hard to be an astronaut and get paid for it, but it's a much more practical goal than getting to the moon.
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Try to set a goal that is relevant or rewarding to you personally. Most people set goals that are inherently relevant to their personal needs and situations. People who are overlooked make goals to stand out. People who are overweight make goals to get trim. But every once in a while, people make goals that they aren't personally committed to, but which they think they should be. (Becoming a lawyer just because your dad is one.) Try not to do this.
- One big regret people have at the end of their lives is not living true to their own ideal, focusing rather on others' expectations.^[2] Live a life true to yourself by setting goals that you actually care for.
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Make sure your goal is time-bound. In other words, set yourself a deadline for meeting the goal. If you set yourself a deadline, your urgency increases monumentally. Without a deadline, you're just kind of along for the ride, paddling downstream, maddeningly unaware of where the finish line is.

Part 2 of 3: Getting Started

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Break down your goal into chunks or pieces. Setting attainable but ambitious goals is a great thing. Lots of people want to lose weight, stop procrastinating, write a book, fall in love, travel the world, and play guitar.^[3] But all of these goals are pretty daunting taken alone. To make the accomplishment of the goal much easier, try to break down the goal into more manageable chunks.
- Losing weight, for example, can be broken down into chunks lots of different ways. You can have a weight loss goal that you set — say 15 pounds — and just set incremental goals for yourself — losing 5 pounds three times. You could even break down the different component parts of losing weight — eating healthy, exercising, and controlling cravings — and set a goal for each of those.
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Brainstorm ideas. Are there different ways to reach your goal? Write everything down that you can think of in three minutes, no matter how silly or impossible it may seem. For example, you could go to acting school, or maybe you could land a spot in a reality show that would get you started.
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Visualize. Close your eyes and imagine yourself accomplishing your goals. Where are you? How did you get there? How do you feel? Do this often. Don’t get swayed easily with the noise and happenings going on outside. Put your attention on what you are trying to achieve. Remember the goal, and you will have control over the discomforts and difficulties. A good way to visualize is to practice self-hypnosis.
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Read inspirational stories or quotes to help you get started. There's nothing quite like a warm kick in the pants from someone who knows what they're talking about. Reading about the struggles and successes of other people can be a huge motivator to get you going or a huge maintainer to keep morale high. Here are a couple for your pleasure as you continue to meet your goal:
- "It had long since come to my attention that people of accomplishment rarely sat back and let things happen to them. They went out and happened to things."^[4] - Leonardo da Vinci
- "Nothing in the world can take the place of Persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent. The slogan 'Press On' has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race."^[5] - Calvin Coolidge
- "Nothing splendid was ever created in cold blood. Heat is required to forge anything. Every great accomplishment is the story of a flaming heart."^[6] - Arnold Glasow
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Ask for guidance. No one can tell you exactly what you should do to achieve your goal, but one of the best sources for guidelines is to ask those who have done what you hope to achieve. Learn from the experience of others without trying to imitate them.
- A good source of help might be a mentor. A mentor is someone, usually older and more experienced, who knows the ropes and gets excited about the idea of helping someone else out. (That someone else is you.) Find established professionals, friends of family, or even colleagues who might serve as mentors, or who could point you to someone who might serve as a mentor.
- If you're trying to become a jazz musician, for example, seek out a more established trumpet player and ask to learn from him or her. If you're thinking about becoming mayor, seek out past mayoral candidates — successful or otherwise — and try to learn from them. If you're just trying to come to terms with an abusive childhood, a psychologist can help you come to terms with some of your feelings.
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Seek help. Find the information, skills and knowledge that you need from other people, books, and audio or video programs. Speed up your learning process by emulating what other successful people have done. You save time and get results faster.
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Be positive. Always believe that you will achieve your goal. As soon as you stop believing, you have already failed.

Part 3 of 3: Accomplishing Your Goal

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Draw on all your past achievements that are relevant to your goal. No matter how small you perceive your achievements, list them anyway. It could be something small, such as joining a healthy eating mailing list, to coming home from work late, yet preparing a tasty nutritious meal for your family in under 30 minutes. Once you review your list, you will be amazed at how all those small achievements soon add up, and how much you are capable of doing.
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Leverage the power of small wins. Bring to mind the small wins you have achieved in your life. Let them give you the feel and the motivation of a conqueror. Let these motivate you to set higher and hitherto unreachable goals, and the courage to achieve them. This will help you win many a battle in your life and ultimately the war.
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Learn from mistakes. Making mistakes should be a subject at school to teach all children how to learn from them, instead of trying to avoid them. In the pursuit of a goal, you are likely to make some mistakes. Don't see them as bad or get angry. They are important to correct you and to lead you to success.
- In fact, make as many mistakes as you can, and then try not to make the same mistake twice. Nothing teaches a lesson like a big fat mistake, whether it's acting buffoonish in front of a cute girl, thinking you can run a marathon after a night of inspired drinking, or asking for your job back after the new one fell through. As long as you internalize the lessons of your mistakes, keeping them in your psyche as you trudge along like a soldier to the battlefield, you'll win ultimately.
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Celebrate benchmarks or milestones. A benchmark is something you can use to measure your progress and know you're on track. For example, after you've been featured in the Entertainment section of the newspaper or appear as a guest on "Oprah," stop to smell the roses. Life is about the journey, not the destination, and how you get there is what's really important. Celebrating your successes will help keep you motivated and hungry as you continue to climb the crucible. Like breeds like, right?
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Listen to your internal dialogue. What you are saying inside affects you physically, emotionally and mentally. Is your defense system inside trying to make you stick to your past, limiting beliefs and perceptions? Take over and challenge your inner critics. Monitor any excuses you might be making as they relate to your goal. For example, saying, "I don't finish work until 8 PM and won't have time to cook!" ends up being an excuse. You must recognize that if you are truly passionate about your goal, it is up to you to make time to accomplish it.
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Be passionate. Striving toward a goal without passion is like a fire which slowly runs out of fuel to burn. Get excited; you don't always have to be in love what you are doing, especially if fulfilling the goal is a hassle and reaching the goal is the fun part. But you should always be able to pinpoint the underlying passion that drove you to start meeting the goal in the first place.
- Methodically check your behaviors against impassioned dreams developed as a child. Always share the child within amongst your potential peers. This empowers the Law of Attraction that shapes the dreams of the child into the creative force of the adult.
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Revisit, evaluate, and if necessary, adjust your goals. Keep a written record of your goals in a place where you'll remember to read them every day. They'll change and adjust over time as your life does, so keep them up-to-date.
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Make contingency plans. Never forget about the problems that might come up on the way, and prepare for them. Positive thinking is important, but preparedness is better than being shocked or devastated when obstacles appear.
- Know that some setbacks will naturally occur. Don't expect a truly smooth ride — life will always find a way to throw a wrench into your plans. How you respond to that wrench is what defines you.
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Consider new opportunities and options that come your way. Sometimes, things have a way of unintentionally leading you exactly where you want to go. Say you're trying to lose weight, and find that you're actually really good at cooking healthy meals. Why not pursue being a chef, with the emphasis of teaching others how to cook quick and healthy meals?
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Persevere. Now that you have the momentum going, don't let it stop! Some steps may seem less exciting than others seem, but make sure to stick to your plan until the end! Avoid distractions and stay focused. Imagine how meaningful your goal is going to be when you can safely say you've achieved it!

Edited by James Quirk, Krystle, Travis Derouin, Krystle C. and 93 others

Three Parts:Setting Goals Getting Started Accomplishing Your Goal